The link provided by Cadet basically is me seeking advice on how to handle it if today is the day he comes to say he is officially leaving. I have been forewarned by a friend that it is possible he is going to bring OW. I do not want her in the house, and I do not want to look at or even talk to her. Their relationship is up to them but she shouldn't have involvement in any interactions between me and DH.
I will try my best to be as detached as possible, but make it clear he has to tell the kids the choices HE is making, and what he intends to do when baby is to arrive as previously he has promised that he would be there at the birth and take 2 weeks paternity leave to be with the kids and bond with the baby.
Please can anyone advice me of anything else to keep me on top? Thanks!