My first post got pushed way back to page seven before they showed on site. Doing a new one hoping folks can give me some idea.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...921#Post2251921

So this morning I login to my bank acct to pay some bills and I see a charge the W for a local hotel. So this tells me she did not go to LA. While I had feels she never went, my issue is that she knows money is tight and still spent money to stay at hotel. I want to tell her that she knows money is tight and she could have stayed here in the guest room but with the meeting we have for Monday(see first thread) I thinking should I wait to then, tell her now or stay dark about the whole thing?


M-41
W-41
D-7
M- 10yrs
I still love you, but 4-25-12
Think she might have EA/PA 5-17-12
Confirmed PA 6-9-12