Life goes on, and gets better.

[Maggie3]

Thanks for checking on me! I'm doing really well lately.

I feel completely detached from him. I've actually Realized I don't want an R with him in the future- which is why I am fine with him cutting the lawn and helping with the maintenance of our home, which I am now getting more comfortable with the idea of selling. I'm too old to get roommates and it is too much house for me- both physically and to maintain.

I think my realization of not wanting an R with him has come from the fact that at this stage in our relationship it was the easiest it was ever going to be. We both are healthy, have good jobs, healthy parents and no children. He spoke about all the stress and how he is less stressed at his mothers, etc. I know I am not a stress inducing person. So if he couldn't take this- how would he be able to handle when things REALLY got stressful?

I never emailed him about stopping by. I had a crazy week, end of school year and dealing with my car insurance after my fender bender, plus I joined a running club and had some dental work so I really kind of forgot about it. If he comes by unannounced again I will set the boundary but until then- no communication.