You are doing great! I'm feeling like I'm in the same place as you, emotionally. It's taken me a little over 9 months to get here. What a journey. And I'm afraid I still have so much more to go. But I almost feel like the worst is over.

There's nothing you can do to prepare yourself for a spouse suddenly leaving you. And there's nothing you can do to prepare yourself for a spouse secretly having a PA. So to get through that storm and start to feel like you're getting your OWN life in control is quite the feat to overcome.

These forums really are such a blessing. I love DB too. Such great people here giving of their knowledge and time so willingly. It's amazing.

I hope you have a great weekend!

Me: 32 H: 32
M 9 yrs
#1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2
Bomb 8/12/11
H moved out 8/14/11
PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12
Got my own place 8/25/12
H & OW move in together 9/15/12
Still married.