Hi - It is not inherently good or bad. It depends on whether the counselor is pro-marriage. It depends on whether H will participate or clam up. It depends on whether he's open to counseling or going just to 'check the box' that he tried it. Mine agreed to go to counseling but after a few sessions he said it seemed pointless to him, and that it wasn't going to change his mind. I've been going ever since, just for my own benefit.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
