Be patient Alamo. Keep your cool and let the lawyers deal with it. Don't make calls trying to explain or u will be seen as defending therefore guilty. Just step back. Get rid or the pc and use a smart phone instead. Put the pc in storage for a bit. My 2 cents
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”