Hi RoughEnough it sounds to be like she may be using you for emotional support during this rough phase when she ultimately wants to move on or thinks she does. I was the WAS in my separation and for months my H gave me love, support, encouragement, and did loads for me, we functioned in this weird close R while I dated other people. Then he moved on and I was faced with the reality of what I'd asked for. It seems like what you don't want to do because you love her, her friendship, and the closeness but the sooner you detach and make her miss you the better
