[bustingout]

Hi LITB,

Am so grateful for this thread! I find myself thinking about it when my thoughts go negative.

I wanted to ask if you could explain a little more about what you said to sophiedaphne about believing nothing that they say and half of what they do.

Like her my H says nothing can be done to save the M and also he knows he made mistakes but has no Ill will towards me.

So does that mean I should not believe that?

And when he lied about the OW should I have actually known ( if i had been DBing at the time) he was lying at the time???

Thanks. You are a rock here