Oddly enough, my husband is saying that he accepts that he made mistakes and says he has no ill-will towards me. What was your turning point?
A huge turning point was exactly what Starsky highlighted in the post that preceded yours.
It was when I was completely out of my W's way to live her life and deal with her reality that things begun to turn. There are some great analogies on the forums to use as examples. The picnic analogy that I posted in my last thread and the dropping the road analogy that is floating around come to mind. I know 25 had another analogy about swimming to the other side.
As for what you H is telling you. Believe none of what you hear and only half of what you see.
Another quote that I believe fits the WAS. “You can avoid reality, but you cannot avoid the consequences of avoiding reality.” ― Ayn Rand
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
