Originally Posted By: LITB

If you read back on my threads, there was a point that I didn’t have any hope for my M. It was when I accepted that my M was over and embraced my new life without my W that I completely detached.



this is soooooooooooo KEY to successful DBing, in my opinion! I have posted before that the two most successful mindsets that I've seen used to get to this place in your mind are:

- The Stockdale Paradox

- The Band of Brothers" "you're already dead" scene


(you can Google both of them; we're not allowed to post links here)


Simply put, until you can "get to this place" in your mind and in your heart, 95% of what you're going to do is going to be wheel-spinning, in my experience.


Starsky

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)