Rollercoaster - Am I tall enough for this ride?

[labug]

So I asked H why he pulled his phone out when I was talking to him last night. He says he was "checking to see if SS had called" since he had called/texted him earlier. Um. Right at that precise moment? Ok?

What were you feeling when he pulled the phone out?

Then I asked him why he called OW to tell her to stop posting to FB. I said to me, it seemed like yet another excuse for them to be in contact. And that I didn't want it to look like I was making him do it (even though that's what I want to do).

What did you want him to do when you brought up OW posting to SS FB?

He said "Its not about excuses. You expressed that you did not like her posting to SS' FB page so I told her not to do it." I asked, "So she does whatever you say?". He says no. I said so what did she say? He said she just said Ok and sorry. I just said Wow and walked out of the room.

This is where I'm really confused.

Help me understand this.