Trusting, I think I have said this before but many MLC behaviors are attention seeking. They prefer negative attention to none at all. So . . . . they wil go on and on until they get tired of the game.

Think of it as attention seeking behaviour and continue to treat it calmly, as you would a spoilt child or dog. So he wants to go back to court again . . . . .OK. When he ceases to get your attention he will stop. Trust me, it works, but it takes a long while.

I wouldn't put it past him to be getting married as a way of getting your attention, mad as it sounds. It doesn't sound as if he actually wants to go through with it.