W told me she is done & doesn't love me anymore-P3

[Snowman]

Well I'm still competing with the guy my W is involved with, uggggh! I was setting up my new tablet computer with my gmail account and went into the calender feature to check it out. Well apparently my W's calendar is still shared with me and it had the following entry on one of the days "Guys name visits!!!!!!". It also had his bday scheduled in there. After the luke warm visit and no action actions on top of this revelation I checked the good old cell records and sure enough she has been chatting up a storm with this guy lately.

I feel like I'm just getting walked all over for being a nice guy. This is just ridiculous. Texting me we have a lot to work on and all this other garbage and then do this. Crap I don't expect things to magically fix over night but 10+ months to make up your mind and string me along but still keep plan B in the background or something. Its either back to detaching or being direct.