Originally Posted By: UKVA

"All you can do, is to respect what her choice is, up to this point. And that choice is to leave the marriage. And it will be her choice consistently...until it isn't anymore."

Does this mean it will cease to be her choice when it becomes mine? If I decide enough is enough (lord knows plenty of people say that to me!) then I take her control of the situation away? I am staying strong in my changes, they are for me, my kids and the friends I choose to surround myself with.


I think it means that at some point, she could choose not to leave. Staying or leaving is a choice. She chooses to leave until she chooses to stay.