The change, Cadet, was sudden and unexpected. He did say, however, that this had been going on in him for a long time.
I am validating EVERYTHING, which, again, is something I've never done. Thanking him for his openness, telling him I appreciate what he's doing. This is something I wish I had done before.
I am scared for when I return home and how we'll interact. Fortunately, I'm returning on Monday morning and won't be going into work that day, so I'll have a day off, in the apartment, by myself until he comes home. Should I be home when he arrives? Should I go out? I do want to go to the library and apply for a library card, so I may do that.
I mean, there's hope here, right? I need to do my 180 and really work through this.
I made an appointment to see the pro-marriage counselor on Wednesday evening. I hope that he will come with me.
