I was in the midst of my reply and accidentally closed the window. Ugh.

I can see the fine line between pursuing and filling the love tank. Did you have any expectations from the text message you sent this morning? If you did, I would consider that pursuing.

Perhaps my previous post was a poor illustration.

For me, I treated my W like a really good friend. Keeping most of our convos and interactions positive. Eventually her walls began to come down little by little.


Me:45 ExW:48
M:04/97
3 Bombs & 2 ReCons
1st BD 11/10
D Finalized 4/20
D-16 S-14
Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa