TM, That is exactl what she is trying to do...sweep the entire situation under the rug, but move forward w/the divorce. She wants to be friends w/you so that she has someone to fall back on when she needs assistance. Their definition of friends is different from what we know.
She is really stretching to get your attention and have you in her corner. I had to laugh about burning movies. I wonder what she'll come up with next. Any ideas?
Continue doing what you've been doing.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.