sophie, i know it's hard right now but you will have to take your focus off him and put it on yourself and GAL. you need things to do and think about other than the sitch you're in.
what's helping me, since i'm no expert and am still making my way, too, is to read the vets advice on the archives. if you want to, go to the forums page and scroll down to the bottom to, "divorcebusting.com archives". then choose, "advice from wise DBer's". you can read just about anything on there and it will help you.
right now, just pull back and stop pursuing. GAL, read, talk to a special friend or relative. just don't tell him anymore that you miss him or he should try again. be happy and upbeat whenever you have any interaction with him.
hang in there. it takes time, time, time. become a better person for you. dig into what you could have done better and how you can be a happier person who also makes others happy.
good luck!
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing
