I haven't got time for the pain

[tested metal]

STBXW is still trying to reach out. Yesterday she texted me saying that I am welcome to use her computer to burn movies. This was out of the blue and not asked for by me.

Today she called me, first appologizing for calling when it wasn't an emergency, which we agreed upon, then asking if I wanted to go to her place and swim with her and D1. I thanked her but told her I was busy this afternoon/evening.

It seems like she wants to be BFFs, but is still sueing me in court for divorce. WTH?? It is almost like she needs me not to be mad at her and tosweep the past under the rug and act like nothing happened even though we are getting a D.