This 18 bed recovery unit in hospital plan - with a private room sounds pretty ideal & that Ryan will enjoy it and have the time to restore himself. I love that he'll be getting the physical therapy he so needs to be able to walk again. And the jetted tub sounds wonderful and soothing.
And a free one month trial of the mattress is perfect! If it works ... fabulous ... you'll get it for him. And if not, nothing lost.
The workers sound pretty wonderful ... I love hearing that they miss him.
I am so glad to hear that Josh arrives tonight and that he will be with you when you sit down with the bulldog head of the agency.
Sometimes women like that won't dare pull out an attitude when a man is present ... sad to say ... but she may behave herself. And Josh is IMO the one who can say a lot of what's difficult for you to say.
He can be the one to insist/demand on BOUNDARIES for you. He can say how worn out you are and the HE will NOT allow this to continue and that everyone concerned must come up with a better way to communicate.
Josh can be your stalking horse. Let Josh be the one to say you are only available xyz times unless it's an emergency etc. He can act (as he actually is) like the concerned partner. Who not only has to put Ryan's needs on the table but YOURS also! He can make sure they understand that you count too.
It sounds as if there's a shift happening. And as I wrote before ... sometimes it just does have to reach the breaking point before change happens.
Seems that there's at least some daylight shining on the situation just from this AM. So fingers crossed that it all falls nicely into place.
Keep the faith b/c all of us are on your side and prayers are powerful!
