I'm relieved, at least, because it feels like I've been given a second wind. This week has been busy trying to ask people for their commitment to help. So far I have 4 live witnesses and 2 written testimonies.

Only one of the witnesses (my therapist/preacher) will address directly my porn addiction/recovery.

The others are Christian men whom I've confided and have been held accountable to them regarding my addiction, but more so are able to testify of my changes from the last 2 years, as well as my relationship with our son.

The two written ones are from women - one from my current boss, and one from another woman at church. They are all close to me.

I have to have everything ready by 6/11 (name list, physical proofs), so there's gonna be even more organizing, printing and paper cuts involved.


M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
Separated 060410
Wife/son moved 022611
Wife serves d-papers 032011
I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312
Bifurcated 103112