Thanks for posting, JKS - it is helpful. And, honestly, worrying has always been a major problem for me. At the end of the day I know it doesn't help - but is seems to be a burned-in behavior for me that I am trying to fight. It all ties back to fear of failure - but I digress.
As I look around and think about the time that has passed and everything that has happened and where my w seems to be right now - I find myself wondering if it is too late for my sitch. Granted, there are others who have stretched out much longer. Nonetheless I wonder if I am completely out of the heart of my w 100% and if she truly wants me to "find someone new that wants to have more kids" - or if that was said in anger.
