Wife says it's to far gone

[zig]

There is more that I did b/c I could not surrender to the "winter of discontent" and be miserable there.

But you get the point. I worked HARD to just feel alright. But then I felt better than alright. I began to like myself more and to know myself better and I CHANGED FOR THE BETTER....

when I truly detached from the outcome of what choice my h made

I comforted myself with the knowledge that "Hey I have become the best woman I can become, and I know this, so I will leave the results up to God."

Either way I knew I'd do more than "survive", I'd thrive.


thanks 25 - i really really need to hear these words today. even 10 months into my sitch i am still having a hard time living them.

thank-you
zig

ps: shocked - don't be like me - take what 25 is giving you very seriously and do this exactly - it will make your life much easier