Not Being A Victim

[BklynMom]

If he doesnt go to the meeting then whatever, then we will not meet. I do not have any expectations that he will actually go.

The legal advice I mentioned was only mentioned to make my father the bad guy not because it is are "true strategy"

"I will only go to the meeting if I can control what H does."
I understand this and its true that is the only way I would go to a meeting it is not in my best interest to go however I would forego my best interest he did something that could help our family not just if we are together but also if we do D.

I will consider everyones thoughts. Thank you.