Hi TD thought I would check in. Try not to read into anything..what she said or the fact that she hasn't filed. Continue on the course I think you're doing great.

It is hard and I totally understand when you say she may never want to change. I had that fear I faced it and then I realized if he doesn't change I don't want to be with him...pretty easy actually. Yes it's sad but what if what's around the corner will make you know that this had to end? We don't know. Right now all we want is to reconcile and for them to change. But there could be a million other outcomes that we'd be very very happy with.