I would think if I contacted W regarding this, I would be trying to control the W and her actions.
If the W is irresponsible enough to not show up on time, is it my problem? It is her choice and she has to learn that I will not be there to fix her problems for her.
Maybe this week was a one-time mistake. I am not going to jump to conclusions and rush in to fix things.
What SIL does I cannot control.
M-40 W-33 D3, D4, SD13 T 9 YEARS M 5 YEARS ILYBINILWY APRIL 2012