Trusting, Considering the drama that is brewing in his life, I think I would consider doing it over the phone. There's no reason for you to have to put yourself thought the aggravation of seeing him when the phone can do the trick just as easily.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
