He just emailed to say that he agrees. He also said "we need to be careful how often we use the attorneys. It is very expensive and I am not sure why we can't do some of this on our own. What happened to becoming friends"
I replied "how often I use my attorney is my call, and I hope to not need her all of the time. However, my friends do not threaten me or make unfair demands on me. I will use her when I feel it is in my best interest to protect myself and the kids interests"