H just called to finalise summer plans. I noticed two things-

1. In the past couple of calls he has made he has started to respond to my changes. Because I am friendly yet distant and not asking ANY questions about how he is where is, whereby has been, how he is, etc he has started to axct ' formal' almost on the phone.

Me- hello?

H- hi, hello?

Me- silence

H- yes... good afternoon (like I am a business office)

Conversation continues....


2. I feel like I may be coming across as fake. It's the first time I feel like that. Like I am coming across as too aloof and really it's because I am covering up a mountain of anger..the calm before the storm. At least I think that's what he thinks..

I intend to let go of all of this anger and not be that person anymore that just holds things in and builds up resentment. But I guess only time will show that.

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home