Originally Posted By: shockeddad
Last night I did text her I found a shirt that we have been looking for my son. She said ok thanks i will get it from you friday. I said okay have a good night. Was that wrong?


stop pursuing her. Back off. GAL...read the Div Remedy or Div Busting book AGAIN and don't backslide.

Be LESS predictable. Upbeat and postive but NOT clingy or needy. NO unecessary contact.

This is not a sprint, it's a marathon. Give your changes and new approach a LOT longer before you monitor for results or expect any. Your timeline or expectaions for change IN HER

are too unrealistic.

Extend your time frame by a WHOLE LOT.

She'll need to see consistent change in you, over enough time, to believe the changes are real and that marriage to you can be better/different.

What are you changing about YOU?

Not just how you act around HER, but how you are, as a man?

What's different about you?

How are you becoming a man only a fool would leave?


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change