I think I made a huge mistake. My parents told me to take the money I brought into the relationship (20k from an inheritance) and move it from our joint account into a personal account. I did, and he noticed, and he was pissed and told his mom. I moved it back, but I don't see why I should take this with me.
I haven't tried to speak with him today. I tried calling him yesterday because I felt like I needed an explanation for him not wanting to go to counseling.
I guess I will no longer continue to pursue him.
My mom is also coming back with me on Sunday. He is respectful to my mom, but I know he isn't thrilled on a good day in her presence. He won't like that she's there. But I feel like I need her to be there for me. I am planning things for every night next week so that I will be out and about, so that even if he wants to talk to me, he can't. I plan on cooking and cleaning a lot more, since he was not happy that he always did so much around the apartment. He didn't like that I was so dependent. I think it's all too little too late, but at least I can make small steps. Like I said, only 6 months remain until he moves back to Australia, and I may just move back to Arizona in the upcoming weeks, so there won't be a presence for him to notice any differences.
