Originally Posted By: MrD
If separation is the only option left, how can this be done if I move out but it is viewed as her giving up?


By whom?

Who matters?

Your children?

What matters is you figure out what you believe in and take actions and make choices accordingly.

I didn't see where you answered my questions.

You don't have to of course but you will have to some day I think.

Why not today?

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am