I say this b/c I don't think people who change/improve a lot, but don't end up reconciled, must just go off into the sunset...I think their stories are as important as the stories of ultimate reconciliation.
And there are success stories of another type too. Stories of people who were heartbroken, felt defeated, lost the marriage, but picked themselves up, changed themselves and their lives...for the better and THAT story is worth telling too.
I agree with you 25. I'm sure that all of us on here hope that we'll have a happy reconciliation story at the end of this, but we all need to see that it's possible to be happy no matter where our path leads.
Knowing that I can be okay on my own makes me just a little less anxious each day. And being anxious definitely won't bring H back any quicker or make my life any better.
M36 XH34 M-5 T7 4/11 H confused 5/11 ILYB 6/11 OW discovered 7/11 I move out, OW over 5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file 9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3 3/13 H/OW break up H files 4/13 D 6/18/13
