My situation with my WAW....

[peringo]

Thanks bond, your words give me some strength... but I am also thick skulled

So now she just showed up, out of the blue, to bring a toothbrush and sunscreen for our son... I don't have him today she does... she then asked if I would join them for dinner.... I passed, she mentioned some relationship issues. and the cost of divorce... I told her she is bringing it all on herself, and I mentioned that I thought she would want better for our son than she had, that that I thought she would put every effort into preserving our marriage. That there were so many inspirational programs for couples... her eyes started to well up with tears.... but our son was starting to get fussy so I said she better get going to feed him.

She had no real reason to come over.
No real reason to invite me to dinner.
No reason to bring up relationship.

Did I do right?