Not Being A Victim

[BklynMom]

I would only have the meeting as a strategy. I would not agree to anything at the meeting. I would just agree to meet. During the meeting I would agree to nothing - I would say I need to think about it.

I think my H needs to get into a program. A good part of his breakdown has been fueled by alcohol. 2 months prior to the bomb H said to me "I think I have a drinking problem. I said "your crazy, you only have 2 beers a night" whoops!

I was a fool.

I know I know you cant control someone. Let go and let god.

However I do believe I need to row the boat. I do believe I should do my best and let god do the rest. I should decide strategically what is right for me and let god take care of the results.

Thats my pitch