My dad just texted ( he lives in Egypt) he wants to know what I plan for financial situation.
I was planning to bring this up when I see H next week when I go on holiday with the kids ( he is meeting us there to see the kids) To let H know that for now I just want to get the house in order ( fallen wall and some other work that needs to be done) and get on the Same page with finances.
Mindreading- he will not disagree about finances but will bring up talk of D. When? Spoke with my DB coach and we agreed what to say ( I am not saying no, but need time to process emotionally and get myself where he is, etc).
This causes some anxiety but need it to happen. Want to be mind free of him over the summer.
Am out for now. Will be back later
Xxx
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
