Rally being honest about my motivations has been one of the most difficult thing I've had to because it's made me see a darker side of myself.
But I needed to shine a light on it to be able to change.
Thank you bug for this quote today. This is so true. For me, facing my own selfishness has been humbling.
I say I want what is best for my W, and yet I keep thinking about ways to pull her back to me bc, to be completely honest, I miss her and want what is best for me. I can tell myself that I believe it is best for her too but that is not my all or even most of my motivation. I know this about myself and it is part of why I am staying NC, I need to detach.
Not sure if my comments are meaningful to you at all, Zig, sorry for highjacking.
Love the new thread title..
Me(f): 51 W: 41 DP:8 M:3 T:10 "W not happy" 7/11 D final: 8/13
