[LITB]

LITB,

You have done a hard thing, you deserve to be be proud. You and your wife both. On her part it is hard, capital H hard to eat pride, soemtimes it is easy to keep moving forward even if a choice is a bad one than to own up to it.

Showing that it is possible and giving hope, also very cool.

To me Piecing was the real journey the hard one I 'm going to suggest highly to you that you avail yourself of that forum with some other trenchmates and posters there. 25, Kalani, Starsky just to name a few.

Piecing to me was harder, because I KNEW I could walk away and be fine. She had shown she could already, we had to learn how to communicate, we had to learn NOT to be afraid to argue and fight, and we had to understand that compromise for both parties was a must.

Enjoy this moment, this time, revel in it and know there is alos a place for help on this part of the journey as well. : )

Thank you for dropping in J3B. It is very much appreciated. I have read a lot of your posts and your story on your own sitch. I have a lot of respect for you.

I am more than open to advice from those that have taken the road before me. You are right, I can see how piecing will be more difficult. I find myself being guarded and less vulnerable. It will take a lot of time, patience, compassion, and understanding to heal our M.

Thanks again.