You have done a hard thing, you deserve to be be proud. You and your wife both. On her part it is hard, capital H hard to eat pride, soemtimes it is easy to keep moving forward even if a choice is a bad one than to own up to it.
Showing that it is possible and giving hope, also very cool.
To me Piecing was the real journey the hard one I 'm going to suggest highly to you that you avail yourself of that forum with some other trenchmates and posters there. 25, Kalani, Starsky just to name a few.
Piecing to me was harder, because I KNEW I could walk away and be fine. She had shown she could already, we had to learn how to communicate, we had to learn NOT to be afraid to argue and fight, and we had to understand that compromise for both parties was a must.
Enjoy this moment, this time, revel in it and know there is alos a place for help on this part of the journey as well. : )
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
