Wife says it's to far gone

[shockeddad]

Well, where to start. There are days that I think just move on and I'm okay with it. Then there are days that I break down. It's been a little over three weeks since I have started to detach, this week I found myself sitting and looking at pictures asking why.

I don't know how to read her at times. For example, when she dropped the boys off Saturday morning she didn't say hardly anything. I was the one to say good bye, I waited till the last second. Then later that day at my sons birthday party, she was talking more to me than she has in a long time and she started the talks. We talked about the kids a little yesterday when I dropped them off,but she was kinda quiet. She did ask me about ccamping with family in july, she asked if I was going to be out only on the days I have the kids, I said I was going all week. That I have been saving all my vaction time for family time. I think she took it as a shock. She said oh. Then didn't saying anything else. I asked if she wanted one of our counceling meeting in a couple of weeks and she said yes. We are going byselfs now. I told her to have a good week when I left and she said you to. I also said her name and not honey.

Our aniversery is the 18th, not sure what to do. Thought about just getting a card that said thinking about you and not regular card. Any thoughts?