Falling in Love Again.....with ME!

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yes brit - i'm trying to do the same thing - stop and ask myself - am i doing this from a place of love, or from my reaction to what i know is going on?

i find myself slightly confused as to how to reconcile the state of agape with setting boundaries. maybe i'll talk about it with iC this morning

i'm really interested in the concept of agape - the idea of giving all things in love without any concern for self-gratification.

i am striving towards that state within myself - it's actually fascinating to me, because i was so much the opposite of that - my love was so conditional before.

but i have to admit that the concepts of DB'ing seem to clash in some way with the concept of agape. DB'ing is a means to an end, while agape is giving up all resistance to whatever you don't agree with

maybe i'm interpreting it wrongly - and agape is the same as "dropping the rope"

what do you think?