I am devastated that he is not willing to go to counseling. He is firmly set in the idea that it's over.
I know I have read that it's still possible to turn things around at this point, but I can't see it happening. He is DEAD set on it. My mom is returning on Sunday with me so that we can pack up whatever stuff I want to take back here with me. He refuses to answer my calls or talk to me about the practical things. I'm sure my mom being there is not going to help, but I need the support from her right now.
He has no idea what he will do. Nor do I. I think that he has already moved on. He said that we're wasting our lives.
