Robb, One son is 23 and out of the house and the other is 16 living at home. I was discussing this with him yesterday and his response was "I don't think it's worth it, she has done this three times to you that I know of." Wow, I didn't expect that answer about his mother. He said "you should try and give her another chance, if she wants to stay, fine. If she doesn't, she should leave."