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I've given up on the DB'ing as it seems she knows exactly what I'm doing and when I show happiness she is cruel and going forth with her affair.


By all means if she is not doing what YOU want.

Quit.

Is that what you meant when you said your vows?

"I'll love you all the days of my life

Until

I don't get what I want.

Unless

You get scared and lose your way.

Then

I won't"

I am not going to convince you to want to save your M

You have to decide why you are here

What are you prepared to do for your M if the condition of it being saved is not guaranteed?

This is for YOU not her.

Why would YOU want to try and save the marriage?

Don't let what your W is choosing right now be an excuse for you to fail.

P.S. You should change your sig line. "H" here usually means husband and if that is what you meant that is cool too. If not it can be confusing.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am