my thoughts, take it as a positive. be nice. he's your friend, remember? we will do well to treat them as friends. if he were just your friend, you wouldn't be thinking of all these other things.

if he brings up his vacation activities, act as if you're just a friend. what would you say to a friend? would you be upset that a friend went on a vacation without you and with someone else?

i've come to realize that my H really pulls back when he detects any anger towards him. it brings back all the reasons why he was unhappy; why we can't be together. it puts stress on him.

keep it stress free! i know you can do it because i learned this from YOU!!

now, just be brit!

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing