Everwhere is walking distance if you have the time

[ClingingToHope]

I hear everyone and I understand and I agree -- but it's going to take time.

Today, my issues were really with parenting. I fell back into lecture mode with D13 rather than listening mode. Again ... tired. Can't wait for vacation so I can sleep in for a few days.

I will just have to do better tomorrow with D13. The surly teen years are taking some getting used to.

Couple of issues popped up with XW -- via D13. XW called D13's school, talked with the vice principal and decided D13 will repeat pre-algebra rather than advance to algebra.

I do not disagree -- but I learned this through D13. I would have liked an email or text for my opinion.

Second thing, D13 had braces three years ago. Since, her teeth have reverted back and she needs them again. Unfortunately, she says XW is saying she can't get braces until D9 has them because she can't afford it.

Well, I don't want to wait on braces for D13 because XW can't figure out how to budget.

So I sent an email asking her to please consult me on school decisions and to get D13 to an orthodontist to see what needs to be done and get an estimate. Once we know the costs we can figure out how to pay for it.

I've been planning on braces for both girls for two years now. I have it worked out and can even figure out how to pay for XW's share and just have her reimburse me (GETTING a check from her every two weeks would be fun).

Updates on other stuff. Umpired last two nights. Have 10 days off, which I need. My knees are stiff. Completed and submitted my grad school application. Another step forward.

Seal coated my uncle's driveway for $50 over the weekend. He wants me to do another coat for another $25. Really, I'm in very good financial shape heading into my first week of vacation. Bring on the fun.

Still, still having bad adult acne. It popped up in February and hasn't gone away. Lots going on at that time -- started working out heavily, which tends to cause it. Started eating lots of protein to keep my levels up for plasma donation. Not sure if that can be a cause. And, of course, learned of XW's boyfriend, which stirred up anxiety issues. Stress causes acne.

I've read lots about it and am trying the health suggestions. Still, it isn't helping much. I'm making an appointment to see a specialist for the first time since I was 15. Really, I can't believe I have this to deal with again.