W told me she is done & doesn't love me anymore-P3

[Snowman]

Ok, the park visit with S got shutdown so my W just came over to the house and brought dinner. I have mixed feelings about the visit.

The positive: She did come over with dinner. We played with my S in the house together. She asked about what to do about the house and we mutually agreed on things there even though she threw in the words if things work out or not. We did vaguely talk about marriage counseling or other approaches. We chit-chatted about various things going on in our lifes. She did hang around for a while which was good.

The not so positive: She talked about counseling for 15 seconds if that and had no opinion or idea on how she wanted to approach things, huh? I discussed the counselor I had found that I would like to try and gave her a printout on the counselor and said please check the counselor out and let me know what others you may want to check out. She did ask me about the online thing which is the Mort Fortel thing and I said I would send her the link so she could get a better description for it but I got the impression she was interested in that because then she wouldn't have to tell someone what has really gone on or continue to hide things. That won't fly with me. She seemed to keep this no emotion state unless she was playing with our S and glimpses of happiness would shine through. It was weird.

I said I needed to go to the store which I really did which allowed a graceful exit for all and a easier transition for our S who struggles when she comes over and leaves.

I think I had the classic issue of getting my hopes up for more than what she gave which I know better and should not have. She had nothing to say even though we exchanged texts where she said we would talk more about this and that when we talk and then we she gets there she says nothing. I didn't pressure to talk and I'm not going to drag it out of her because that would be the old me but I'm a little confused to say the least after all the texting.

I will send her the counselor stuff and Mort Fortel program for her to research as she requested and go from there. I know I need to be very careful not to pressure so I won't. I will only do what she asks or is open to and hopefully we can spend more time together as well.