Well I am meeting the lawyer Friday to write up a temporary order and order for just cause. H will be po'd but I don't care. I have had it. I have sat back kept quiet and bid my time. It's time to take action. I have given H enough rope to hang himself.
Which, by the way, leads to the "abandonment" issue. H is MIA once again. Now weekends are not enough he has to disappear during the week too. That's okay. More fuel for the fire. Every time I introduce reality into H's little fantasy world he runs. So it's time for a major dose of reality. The fallout will not be pretty.
And yes he should take both kids so I can GAL. I actually did this Saturday night while at the hotel for S's soccer tournament. After eating pizza some soccer parents and coaches stayed behind to chat and have some adult refreshments. H went back to the pool with the kids. I stayed with adults and chatted. I happened to start a conversation with a very cute male soccer coach. We shared some beers and some glances. It was nice to know I still got it and that other men actually find me attractive. After all these years I still got it! I didn't get back to the room till 2:00 in the am. And the best thing is I have witnesses. Nothing happened. But it was nice to flirt! : )
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
