Because you want to show your independence. I'm not saying that YOU personally have to do it. But you can hire someone even if it's the neighbor's kid.
The sooner your H sees that you no longer need him, the sooner he'll start rethinking things.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.