Life goes on, and gets better.

[Maggie3]

That's what my friend said.."you would never drop by his mom's house".

Below is what I am planning on sending him tomorrow. He must have had the day off so he knew prior to coming that he would be coming...which is what irks me. I know some people suggested that I should be cutting the lawn and doing house projects by myself...but I think I am at the point where I am done with caring if he resents me. I don't want a R with him anymore, but as a co-owner of this house I expect him to help with the care and maintenance. I am not needy or dependent....I removed the wallpaper from every room in this house and did most of the painting myself too. That was a big issue, that I felt I had to be the man and woman of the house because he is "low energy" and I am "high energy" (read: lazy vs motivated).

Hi H,
I noticed you came by the house today. While I appreciate you cutting the lawn, in the future please let me know that you are coming by".

I so want to write something like "so I can make sure my new boyfriend's toothbrush isn't out" or something snarky but I resisted